Mothers Day with Meno Pause {Stilettos in the Garden}

When I was in my 30’s I asked a sweating woman having hot flashes next to me at work what it was like having MenoPause.  She looked at me, smiled, and said “You know I am a gentle person right?  I would never hurt anyone.  Last week in the store I wanted to kill a… Read more »

Zen Dreams

Dreams are the the great hiccup in which all creatures can transcend the boundaries of time; past, present and future. From the moment children stand on a chair and  see the world from a higher perspective, they dream of the day they will have more power. We carefully sculpt our lives around  these visions, following… Read more »

There are Many Kinds of Teachers

My  father was a history teacher and whether building a kite or watching thunder storms,  children and animals were drawn to him.  It  seemed even when not in the class room, he loved to teach.  My grandmother  and mother also were teachers, as is my sister.  Born Indigo, with “Additional Dimension Disorder”, my greatest challenge… Read more »

Masks and Winners

The great poker players of life can don masks and remove them fluidly without a twinge of self doubt. Man the strategist, often masks his way to the top. For some of us just to smile in a camera creates crooked tight lipped facial freeze.

Exercising Intuition

Next time you make an important decision try this: Close your eyes AND GO NUMB. If your feet feel heavy and you are tired for no reason…that’s “NO.” “Don’t do it.”… { But if you feel light, like champagne bubbles? That’s a “YES” “Go for it!” Journal your results.

Lone Wolf Social-Rapist

I am a lone wolf-social rapist that loves mystical path ways, ancient trees, good conversation, animals and coffee.   Home is the equivalent of defraging my computer, removing dirty  files absorbed through crowds and deleting subliminal rot going through my head.  I need much alone time, or I don’t know myself. As an adult Indigo this… Read more »

Repeat Lover..3 strikes he’s out!

Jason left “for good” just like three other times.  He said he would be back for his stuff on the weekend.  He didn’t.  Four weeks later a pair of his dirty underwear was still on the floor and three of his shirts were folded on top of Erika’s dresser.  Worse, he still had the key… Read more »